I feel your pain. I really like wings, but didn't like smoked wings for the reason you mention above. But, good smoked wings are definitely possible.
Note: I like saucy wings. I haven't tried eating these without saucing them.
When I smoke them, I use a flour based rub to help dry the skin. I usually do 5 lbs wings at a time.
1 cup flour
3 TBS baking powder
1 TBS paprika
1 TBS kosher salt
1 TBS garlic powder
1 tsp black pepper
Mix all together
Toss wings in a bag with the above rub/dust.
I have a
Rectec 700, but should be similar for others too.
Smoke at 200 degrees for 2 hours.
(make homemade BBQ sauce here, prepare to brush on wings)
Remove from smoker
Increase heat to 400-450
Return wings to smoker for 10-15 minutes to crisp skin.
Then brush on sauce with wings still on grill, flipping wings a few times to set the sauce.
I typically prepare the wings the same way and have done a few different sauces. Honey Garlic, Fire and Ice, BBQ, Buffalo......The wings always disappear quickly.