First, I'd like to sincerely thank you all for the outpouring of support and your prayers. They really do mean a lot to us and we greatly appreciate them.
I've waited to post an update until we had more information, so here's an update on where we are as well as a testimony to the power of prayer.
When she had the liver biopsy done a couple of weeks ago, her liver doctor said that pathology results of "inconclusive" could be the worst case scenario because of what steps that may lead to in order to get an accurate diagnosis. Well, they came back "inconclusive". Her doctor had an opinion, but he had her case reviewed by some of the advanced medical boards at MUSC. We met with him yesterday and he said they are all in agreement...She does not have liver cancer and no exploratory surgery is needed. Talk about the weight of the world being lifted off my shoulders. We can't help but acknowledge what the prayers have done.
She does have advanced cirrhosis, which is severe scarring of the liver, and that can develop into cancer over time. Cirrhosis won't go away and the progression can only be minimized. Hers developed from fatty liver disease which she was diagnosed with when she was around 20 years old, before I knew her. The good news is that her MELD score, which is an indication of how urgently someone needs a liver transplant, is 6 which is as low as it can be. This score can range from 6-40 with 15 being the point at which a person could go on the transplant list. The score is the result of several lab tests and there is no sure way to know if or how fast she will progress.
So now she goes into a monitoring phase. She will have all the necessary lab work and an MRI done every 3 months for the next 1-2 years. Depending on the progression of the disease, that frequency can go to every 6 months for a few more years and then maybe yearly.
A couple of simple lifestyle changes will help slow the progression. From here on, no food or drink with added sugar. Natural sugar, such as in fruits and vegetables, is OK. This won't be a problem because she already avoids most sugar, anyway. We didn't think to ask about artificial sweeteners, but we will. Next is no alcohol. She has never drank much except for the occasional glass of wine with a meal so that won't be a problem, either. Save me a bunch of money when we go out to eat
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Now back to the original issue, the abdominal pain which is what brought us to this point to begin with. It is totally unrelated to her liver disease which the doctor called an incidental finding. So she has another appointment with her GI doctor and hopefully he can figure out what's causing the pain, other than me
. The pain is really bad at times and she has trouble sleeping most nights.
The stress of all of this has been tremendous with many sleepless nights. Now finally we/I can breath easier. My desire to cook and fish has returned so watch out.
Again, THANK YOU ALL for the thoughts and prayers!! They have made a difference...