Have to discuss it with her. Two scenarios her and myself orbI send her and our 3 daughters for a ladies family vacation. As our daughters are all in their early 20s and starting or getting ready to start families of their own this might be the last time something like this would be possible. It would eat into our savings a bit but I think it would be well worth the memories for them.Are you planning to go with her, or stay home and play with all of the great presents?