Only oven roasted for Thanksgiving here. I actually like the house smelling like turkey as much as eating it... Fried and smoked birds are awesome but just too over the top with traditional sides. If I had to choose, I'd say fried is better but it's mostly since smoked is so aggressive tasting. Smoke cured turkey is bar none my favorite but it more of a delicacy snack than a meal thing. I cannot imagine chowing down a plate of it. Now, if I was hosting the after party, anything is fair game...
PS Best way to do fried is to do parts instead of whole bird. More control, safer, and far less oil.
My family decided on smoked so we are gonna give it a shot. Someone is also bringing a ham that way if I screw up we still got something to eat. haha. I think it will be alright though