Hello Terry!
Welcome to
Love your enthusiasm!
Tough call, but I would encourage you toward a stick burner you could use charcoal in.
Charcoal can be a few brickettes, or lumps, and you add some chunks for your smoke. (You can get a bag of hardwood chunks for the purpose.) Or you could build a up a hot fire in it.
That way you will learn from the ground up, and have complete control of the smoke profile.
It's not the easiest way, but it's a great way. Later on, you can try electric, or add something like an
AMNPS to do more smoke at lower temperatures, with cheap easy to buy pellets.
Tons of meat... well to me that means Costco or Sam's Club, here. But if I could, I'd likely choose the Amish, because I believe they would be selling the purest meat. (No hormones or such) Short of raising your own.
Since your Dad is getting a grill, and you want to smoke meat, there are many ways to begin. try and compliment what your Dad gets so you are a bit different. If he gets a Pellet grill, you do charcoal. If he gets a stick burner/charcoal, you get an
AMNPS and a box or an old porcelain fridge (NOT plastic inside).
My first smoker cabinet was a big old electric motor controller cabinet stripped out to just the box, and an electric hot plate with a #10 can for wood chips. Wa-La! An electric smoker! That was over 50 years ago....
Nowdays, an
AMNPS, and somewhere to hang meat where the smoke will linger.
I've even seem a guy using an old filing cabinet he made into a smoker.