Shiesh. Yep, hassle. You might see if there are any local web gun sites in your state. We have "Oklahoma Shooters Association." Lots of good guys there, lots of good shooting information and a lot of other helpful stuff. Kinda a private social group. If close enough, some meet for lunch, shooting events, or just shoot the bull frequently online. You might check your state laws concerning private transfers, but we have been known to meet other members at say a Bass Pro parking lot and after making fully sure they are an instate resident and watching their reaction by asking them if they are legal to own a fire arm, made some private transfers to avoid your examples of hassles. Good Luck To You.