A funny story, in my younger days, whenever I was PO'd at the girl friend, I would shut up and sit down and just start sharpening the kitchen knives. It gave me focus, kept my mouth shut and I had the sharpest knives in town. Wait there is more. My sister told me she always knew when there had been a disagreement 'cause the girl friend had bandaids on her fingers for a week. And I never even noticed the bandaids. LOL.....