Thanks cats are good for staying grounded imho. If a cat likes you they like you. If they don't they don't. I love their independence and the fact that they do their own thing 90% of the time.
Soooo I got a cat gate to keep the new kitten and my big ole male apart for a while to slowly introduce them



... Needless to say the first thing she did after some initial exploring was go over the gate and under the bed EXACTLY where Leo was LOL. My cat and the kitten have both been around other cats so other than some minor you stay over there on your side hissing there were no issues. leo's under the kitchen table she's popping out from under the bad every 15-20 mins to explore some more.
First litterbox visit was her rolling around in the fresh litter. Glad I changed it before I brought her in. I assume she was marking. I seen her using the dirt out at the site so I assume it won't be an issue. she's pretty young so should be natural.
Here's a shot of leo with the large mixing tub I use as a litterbox. Give you an idea how big he is... I would guess she's no more than 2-3 lbs max she's pretty tiny.
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