I haven't been around in awhile, and I just wanted to say, "Thank you so much!" we deeply appreciated the help.
And to let y'all know that things have worked out.
First and foremost, I'm cancer free... Thank you Lord!
Had it cut out and I'm good to go.
We got deeper in debt and it was looking grim, so I finally said "F it!" and cashed out a 401k.
Took the damned 25% federal/state tax hit, and paid off everything, debt free now. Even bought my wife the second car she's been wanting.
And the kicker is, I start a new gig with Daher Aerospace on Monday.