I was in the same boat as OP for quite some time. I actually took nearly 2 months to finally decide. early on in the process i was all about Traeger, having drank the koolaid on them pioneering the pellet smoker and having one of the first patents etc. But the deeper down the rabbit hole you go, the more options you start to realize are out there. Traeger was quickly out of the picture for me when i started to see how much info there was on how their tech hasn't really changed too much since their patent expired and everyone else got in the mix. If I remember correctly (not as accurately but correctly) many of the brands you see now come from the same manufacturers that built Traeger grills for them for quite some time. I believe Pitt boss, z grills, grilla grills, and maybe
camp chef all fall into this (do not quote me on that but i know z grills for sure). So given this i moved onto Z grills and started to really enjoy the tech innovation awards as I'm a full blown techy. All of them essentially seemed the same. I liken it to how a Lexus is really just a Toyota camry with a sleeker body in the case of base models.
ultimately, to not make this any longer than I likely already unnecessarily did, I chose a Pit Boss (PB pro series 1100 to be exact). Why...? for me it was important to have a good amount of surface to grill/smoke on so the size was good. They had a 5 year warranty which was not too bad considering they once only operated under 1. We constantly have huge family gatherings and we do all different kinds of food so it was important to have an easier go at switching out pellets (this is ultimately what started tipping the scale away from
zgrills). And then... the broiler plate opening. This household loves its steaks, and if the sear isnt right I'm not sure what would happen so having that ability in one grill is pretty damn awesome. I've used the grill twice only and mainly for grilling no long smokes yet but the sear i've gotten on my steak is pretty impressive.
I will say that
rec tec came in as a late research for me and so i may have pulled the trigger early but the way i saw it was, this is all new to me up to now i've been a straight up lump charcoal with a few wood chunks thrown in kinda guy and really only for grilling, i've never smoked a damn thing. I've not gotten to see a
rec tec up close but I will say that i've already got my eyes BFG-2500 they have coming out in May I've slated myself to get this closer to the sep/oct timeframe as i'm not a fan of being an early adopter of any new release. For now i think the PB is going to be a good introduction for me.