Kids need to eat dinners with their parents. Family time is just as important as bedtime.
And that time needs to coincide with the children's needs. NOT the parents.
Get your chit together to work with the kids, not make the kids wait until you get a round toit. :mad:
In my house, the kids ate first, the adults ate second. So the cook better make sure there was enough. If there was any doubt, Dad's rules applied.
And there were bedtimes. Structure. Deal with it.
No kid should ever have to wait on the parent to get their chit together. That is a bad example.
A child falling asleep waiting for dinner is a
Fail on the
parents part.
Get the point?
At my table, the kids conversation was as important as any adults. It was a time to share and converse. It let me know what was on their minds. A time to empathize, or to steer as may be needed.
Now, a dozen Grandkids in, and 1 Great Grandson, I haven't changed my mind.
They need structure, Love, and boundaries.
Must be working, the Love is multiplying, not dividing. ;)
YMMV:)