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Inscrutable

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I’ve never met anyone here in person, and this is of no real concern, but Ive come to regard this place as pseudo-family and comforting …

This morning my 4-yo grandson died. He is in my avatar from a while ago, the light of my life and my wife’s, who got us thru this multi-year Covid/lockdown shit-show. We aren’t supposed to outlive our kids, let alone our grandkids. I don’t know how to get thru this. No one will ever be the same. But my daughter and granddaughters need us. I’m sorry to post this … just had to vent somewhere, and this has been a place of solace in other ways. If inclined, pray for my daughter and son-in-law.
 

bigfurmn

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You may have never met us but we still consider each other as friends. We are here for you. Vent all you need. My family will be praying for you and your family.
 

SmokinGame

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Tim,

There is not much I could ever say to take away the pain you and your family have to be feeling. All of you are in my prayers. If you need to "vent", myself and others will listen.
 
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SmokinEdge

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Prayers up.
What a tragic situation. I cannot even imagine, but those living need your support. Bring the family together and support them in a unity. So sorry for your loss. Time is the only thing that will resolve this, stay engaged with family. God’s speed.
 

Rafter H BBQ

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Sorry your family is having to endure this tragedy… Please know your an SMF brother and we are here for you! If you need to vent… by all means do it!

My fam and I are sincerely broken-hearted for you all!

Prayers to your family from ours! 🙏🏼
 
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GonnaSmoke

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I am here for you to vent to, a shoulder to cry on, a heart that is breaking for you, someone to pray with and for you. My soul and my heart are truly hurting for you and your family...
 
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millerbuilds

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Tim,
SMF is like family, we are here for you. Jackie and I will add you and your family to our families prayers.

Jason and Jackie
 
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Carbon1960

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I’ve never met anyone here in person, and this is of no real concern, but Ive come to regard this place as pseudo-family and comforting …

This morning my 4-yo grandson died. He is in my avatar from a while ago, the light of my life and my wife’s, who got us thru this multi-year Covid/lockdown shit-show. We aren’t supposed to outlive our kids, let alone our grandkids. I don’t know how to get thru this. No one will ever be the same. But my daughter and granddaughters need us. I’m sorry to post this … just had to vent somewhere, and this has been a place of solace in other ways. If inclined, pray for my daughter and son-in-law.
So sorry for your loss. You will make it through this. Stay strong for those that rely on you.
 
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tbern

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Deepest sympathies for you and your family. Please don't hesitate to vent or whatever you need to do. So very sorry for your loss.
 

DougE

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I have no words to offer that will help you through this terrible tragedy. All I have to offer are prayers for you and your family, and an ear to listen if you need to talk.
 

Brokenhandle

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That is heart breaking! I can't even imagine! We send our prayers for you and your family. And as others have said, we are here to listen to you, an ear if you need to vent.

Ryan
 

MJB05615

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I have no words for this unthinkable thing that happened. We are so sorry, and you and your Family are in our prayers. As said above, we are always here for anything you need to vent, etc. Somehow find the inner strength to be strong for your Family.
 

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