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dirtman775

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I am so done with this board
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I am so tired of seeing people trying to have free speach by voicing thier opinions on subjects brought up for discussion only to be silenced. By who???? someone half way across the country...who the hell are you people anyway???? how dare you silence people on the subject of our country anyway???? im gonna give you a hint....this cyberworld is all makebelieve, a distraction if you will to take our eyes away from what is happening right in our own back yard....yes i am referincing to the recent thread that was closed today.



Now read this and tell me if you feel any different about closing threads. Read your constitution free speech people, free speech. NO one has the right to silence anyone wether on the street, in writing, or in the land of make believe (the internet). I leave you all ashamed and discusted and with this...................


And no i will not be creeping around to see what people say or if the Mods shut it down
 
This is a smoking forum. That's what people come here for.
Also, this is NOT a public forum. It's owned and operated by one man.

Jeff supplies a fine forum here for us to gather and share smoking ideas. the least we can do in return is to follow his simple request of keeping things civil and use this place to exchange recipes and Smoking tips.



If you would like to suggest the addition of new sub forums, contact Jeff via PM. I'm sure he would take any suggestion into consideration. He's a very fair and kind person.
 
Maybe I'm wrong, but didn't that thread only get closed after it went from a discussion about the story to people attacking each other, and taking things personal? Seems to me that's a great time to close thread.

Sure, we have free speech in this country, and that's part of what makes this country great. However, with that right comes some responsibility. We are all responsible for being civil to each other, and not making people feel bad for their beliefs/ideas. Does that mean that a civil conversation cannot be had? Of course not. In a private forum, however, if the owner of that forum wishes people keep things civil, then it does mean that they can squash it.

Personally, I don't care too much one way or the other weather it stayed open. I had quit reading it anyhow because of the tone that it had taken on. However, the mods and Jeff are the ones who make those decisions, and they did. I'm sorry that you feel that you can't come here any more because of it, if I had a problem with conversations like that getting killed, I'd probably just stick to the meat sections myself. I understand that you feel like it's completely wrong to close the thread, and respect your decision to leave, however.

Many Happy Smokes to you!
 
This site is owned by TulsaJeff and therefore we abide by his rules while here. We as Moderators and Administrators were asked by Jeff to help him run the site and keep it running the way he would like it to. This site is a smoking site primarily however Jeff has allowed much more than just smoking to be discussed here. He does require things to stay respectful, civil, and somewhat on topic to the original thread. Politics and Religion are probably the two subjects that seem to bring the most problems because things very often go downhill very fast in them and they become uncivil, disrespectful and way off the original topic. Some of us have suggested that they not be allowed here at all as it seems most of the time they end up with hard feelings either by members being mad at other members or members at us when we shut them down. Jeff and the Administrators have attempted to allow them until such time as they get out of hand. With that being said if you have a problem with what a Moderator or Administrator has done then try sending them a PM to discuss it or you can always PM the owner.
Starting another thread to try to stir crap is another violation of the rules here.
As far as your being "so done with this board" that IS your right you can choose to come here or not but unless you pay the bills and own the site you do not have the right to set the rules
 
I agree with both Dirtman775 and Cowgirl.

Its just common sense that if a post comes up that is political in anyway, people are going to have a difference of opinion. That's just the way it is, and it gives no one the right to belittle the opposing members viewpoint, but it happens. If you don’t agree with someone's view, ignore it? It’s pretty simple. IGNORE IT!!!

There are a few members here who have views quite opposite of mine, that's cool with me, I don’t engage them in a debate on the subject, rather I look at them for what they bring to the smoking world as far as ideas and the methods they employ in their smokes. No one is going to change anyone's beliefs here. Its a cyberspace forum!!!

The members who share my beliefs, I let them know by bumping their thread with a quick line of support and so on. Yes, this is Jeff’s board, and yes, we must abide by his rules. That’s pretty black and white there. But what happens to a forum when it gets to the size this one has, is sorta like a huge corporation whose board members makes decisions rather than the person that started the company. I’m not implying that we can simply take the forum away from Jeff, we can’t, and it would not be right to try. What I am saying is that this is not the first time threads have been locked due to difference of opinion and maybe it is time that an area be opened for such touchy subjects We have had threads locked down for things as simple as to foil or not to foil ribs? Or for certain jokes that involve BOTH parties. How fricking stupid is that?

Yes, as Cowgirl mentioned, this is a smoking forum. However, we have many other offshoot topics totally unrelated to smoking. Veggies, gardening, beer and ale and so on.
This forum should have a place where if you want to bring something up that can get heated, or just need a place to vent your opinion on something, then so be it, and this has been suggested before. As long as your not foul mouthing the opposing view or threatening them, we should have a place for that.
If you know there are going to be views thrown around that don’t coincide with your own, well then just stay out and don’t read the thread. And if you do read it and it offends you, tough, don’t respond. You don't watch tv shows you don't like do you? No, you turn the channel. You will not change anyone's view point on this or any other board. The only thing you will do is get your blood pressure up without changing a thing.

This board has provided 1000’s of members the opportunity to learn this craft, and those who have stuck with it, the opportunity to perfect it in their own way.
But we have lost many long standing members here, both standard and OTBS. They have stopped posting and moved on to other boards and taken a wealth of knowledge with them, simply because they were censored and/or banned for having a different take on things.

Travcoman started a good thread, he wanted to point something out that he seen as important. He also stepped up when he thought the thread lost its original intent and the members here should have respected that and ended any further postings on the matter.

QUOTE “Folks, we've lost sight a what this thread was about. It's about Americans takin away the rights of Americans. It was not started ta stir the pot an bring personal attacks on members. That ain't what this neighborhood be about. It was started to inform yall of a problem.

If ya gained some insight from it, I'm glad, if it brought out meanness in ya I'm sorry. I agree, time ta put this en ta bed.” END QUOTE

Any views that spiraled off that original thread should have been made into their own thread if you feel that passionate about it and that is where a “free speech” if you will, section should be had.

There will always be a difference in opinion on any topic. Whether it be to foil or not to foil your pork butt or ribs. Which wood is best. The best or proper way to cure something. Which politician did what. What sports team is the best and so on.
Censorship is never a good thing. People don’t necessarily leave this board because they are offended by what others said. People leave this board because they or others are stifled.

I say open an area where free speech can be had, without censorship. This forum has outgrown it's humble beginnings as a small Yahoo group. We are all adults here. If someone bashes another member, there are plenty members here who can and will step in and tell them to knock it off. If a post comes up that gets heated or morphs into something other than what the original poster intended, and he or she asked that you either get back on track or put an end to it, then as adults, you need to respect that. If you feel the need to carry on, start your own thread.
 
I'm sorry to hear you're leaving the forum.

I support the decision to close the thread.

No one is required to provide you space to speak your mind, especially if they are paying for it and you're not.

This is a great forum. I've learned a lot and try to help when I can.

Again, sorry to hear you're leaving. I hope that when you calm down, you will return.

Thanx Jeff, you're doing a great thing here and I'm proud and happy to be here.
 
I think it comes down to whether Jeff wants keep the forum as a Smoking forum as intended or expand. It's up to him. it's his decision.
Contacting him with your suggestions would be the way to go. Feel free to PM me too, I can forward any ideas.
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Our ability to express our opinion is WAY different than attacking someone else for their differing belief. That is a very fine line and it was crossed by several members. We encourage healthy debate but not attacks.

Nuff Said
 
In a world of different views, one can not always see the point of another. This is true based on the way we were raised or not raised & the values & morals that were instilled or not instilled in us as children. The original post kind of touched on this point but was lost in the debate of "America" & the values American's have & share. Yes, as we do have the freedom of speech, this particular forum was created to "Speak" smoke & not about our politics or religion. I think the other forums discussing vegetables, gardening, beer, fruits, breads, desserts, etc. help to enforce this site's ideas of smoking meats. I mean, really, all we are talking about is food, right? Taking pictures of food, sharing our recipes, formulas, pratices, technique's, which do not stir the human emotion of hatred, anger, outrage, bias or difference of opinion. Politics, History & Religion always cause issues because we all did not read or learn the same story from the same books. But when asked, we can come together with our experiences from our past smokes without argument or without colliding with one another because cooking is a need & food is a need of survival. Everyone, everywhere wants to survive if not thrive on life, correct? (Well, maybe not the Mass murderer types.
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This forum was not opened to discuss politics or religion or history. Smoking meats, plain & simple. As huge as the internet is today, people can't find or start their own website to discuss heated subjects & montor them as they see fit? I thought that is what the "Freedom" meant in "Freedom of Speech." Free to go where you want, to say what you want, when you want. I am hoping this does not turn into a "Bashing Jeff" isssue for not having a separate forum for discussing possible world issues that cause people's blood to boil. I like the forum as it is & I for one hope it stays that way. We already have members who can get heated over how to cook a pound of flesh. We don't need to add more "Lump" to the fire. I think "Censorship" is allowing someone to bring up a subject, then editing the words that they used to discuss that subject.

The rules are explained here:
http://www.smokingmeatforums.com/for...ad.php?t=57838

I believe that the Administrators & / or Mods should write a code that makes people who want to join this forum, automatically have agree to the rules before being able to join. Changes you want to make can be submitted with respect to the correct personel & can be taken into consideration. But for the most part, we are here to discuss, debate & share our ideas & experiences about "Smoking Meats", right?

I think as adults, we are quick to allow our emotions to get the better of us, especially when we see something posted that we have a strong opinon about. I really think we should keep this forum as is for the good of the smoke. This is just my $0.02 as I am not trying to "STIR" up emotions in anyone, anywhere who thinks differently. As for Dirtman, hopefully he will stay but if not then good luck to you Man. I hope you find what you are looking for out there. When you want to show me some qview & discuss your smokes, I will be here waiting for you. Peace out.
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I am leaning toward starting a subscription only (you have to sign up to be able to see the threads/posts) forum that is a non-smoking area for things such as politics, religion, etc.. I have not done this yet and until I do things will be handled as they have today.

Left alone until it gets out of hand, and it almost always does, then locked down and probably moved to the mod forum.

There are a small number of you who would like to discuss different topics and nothing wrong with that but the majority seems to favor keeping it to smoking meat topics only.

This is not a majority rules kind of forum and it certainly is not a democracy but I do try to keep my ear to the ground and keep things focused on what folks want.

Good job mods on taking care of this.. I think you are doing a superb job and I don't think I would have done anything different if I had handled it myself.

Politics and other touchy subjects seem to bring out the very worst in folks..

Personally, I wish we could just come here and talk about smoking meat and leave the problems of the world behind for a while but apparently that is just too peaceful for some
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Believe it or not... I have some very strong opinions about politics right now and always have, I just choose to not take advantage of my position here to push them off on you.

I hope to get the same favor returned to me.
 
Well said Jeff, and thank you!
You still have the best Smoking forum around. Thanks for putting up with us.
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Echoing cowgirl and JaxGatorz!

As Jeff said so well, "Personally, I wish we could just come here and talk about smoking meat and leave the problems of the world behind for a while..."

Thanks for that. That is exactly what I'm doing here. I have two butts and some jalapeno brats on the smoker, Jeff's sauce and Dutch's beans on the stove, it's nigh on to time to feed my sourdough, and a beer in my hand. All the while, taking short breaks to come and see what everyone else is talking about and smoking.

Peace to all!

Jerry
 
Guys,
As a legal alien who only joined the forum today i have no right to air comments on elder members therefore will not, however i have seen many a great Yahoo group or forums such as this one collapse due to peoples opinions about off subjects,

I joined this forum to learn about smoking, not to discuss the state of the union, health care or Obama, for this i use other forums that i am affiliated,

I am a member of may radio ham forums but would never bring up FCC issues on here,

So i guess my take is to take it elsewhere, my father told me never to discuss religion or politics because these two subjects have caused too many wars, lets be adults and leave it to others to self destruct,

I for one will just ignore what i don't agree with but will not judge others unless pushed to do so.

I don't care if you are a Republican or Democrat, just help me SMOKE

Lets get back to why my brisket is mushy or tough and let me learn from others as they may learn from me (when i get it right)


Thanks
Wayne
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The statements made by Pineywoods and Cowgirl are fully supported by all the mods. Anthony (Caveman) made a valid and reasonable statement on his take on the purpose of this forum. It's Jeff's ballpark, and we play by his rules and guidelines. Let's move on to smoking some Q.
 
I'm in full agreement with the way the mods handled this issue. I am an administrator on one forum and a moderator on another and I would have handled it the same way. Well done!!
 
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