This time of year will never be the same again.

[normanaj]

My father in-law hasn't been in the finest of shape for some time and had been in pain for quite some time,yesterday morning he took his own life.Very hard thing to process,just can't wrap my head around it and yet I can.

It's time for Jane and I to take a break from daily life and go do some living outside of where we live.My home town has been nothing but a place of death for the both us over the past three years.A nice trip back up Maine sounds really good right about now and a few nice concerts to go see too.So if you don't hear much from me you'll know why.

 

[Steve H]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I'll have you and yours in my thoughts.

 

[Brokenhandle]

That just plain sucks! Don't really have the words but our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take as much time as you need and remember, there are many here that would lend an ear if you need a friend, or someone to vent to.

Ryan

 

[gmc2003]

Sorry to hear this Norm, it's never easy. VT has death with dignity. I wasn't sure where I stood when it first became law, but I have since softened my stance on it and understand/accept it.

Prayers to you and your family

Chris

 

[Fueling Around]

That's a blow to the season.
Thoughts and prayers are with you

 

[Jim_C]

Sorry to hear of the loss.

It's often good to get away and breath some different air. It provides us an opportunity to digest things away from the day-to-day rat race.

It's difficult but I would take solace in it being his decision. Having watched family and relatives go through the downhill side of aging and the Hospice system, I'm not a fan of it.

 

[Steve H]

Sorry to hear of the loss.

It's often good to get away and breath some different air. It provides us an opportunity to digest things away from the day-to-day rat race.

It's difficult but I would take solace in it being his decision. Having watched family and relatives go through the downhill side of aging and the Hospice system, I'm not a fan of it.

I couldn't have said that better.

 

[912smoker]

Very sad news Norm. Thoughts and prayers for the family at this difficult time and as you continue to try and process his decision.

Keith

 

[Flatrate]

Sad news indeed, sorry for loss.

Dave

 

[SmokinEdge]

Sorry for your loss, no words really ever help in these situations, but remembering to live life and go create some moments because in the end the good moments are worth the most.

Thoughts and prayers Norm.

 

[schlotz]

Was sad to hear of your loss Norm. I know all too well how hard something like this can be on those who are left behind & confused. What he must have been going through had to be worse. Great idea to go get a fresh perspective which will help clear the mind and begin the healing. Hang in there guy!

 

[Ishi]

Sorry to hear the bad news! You have a lot to process so the trip will do you good. Take care!

 

[chef k-dude]

This puts the depression I experience around Christmas in to perspective. Combined with the pain I have been in through 2025, I completely understand your FIL's decision. He's no longer in pain now and rest assured, he didn't make the decision lightly.

Hopefully your road trip will help to clear your minds and reset both of you for the future.

 

[Winterrider]

Oh my goodness, very sad news. Thoughts and prayers to family and friends

 

[sandyut]

I am very sorry for you families loss. This must be very hard and I can understand your feelings. Enjoy the time with your wife. Sending thoughts and prayers.

 

[bmudd14474]

I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you guys. We will pray for healing for your family.

If you need anything please let us know.

 

[JLinza]

So sorry to hear this. Was in a very relatable situation myself years ago. We'll be praying for your family. And know there are folks here ready to lend shoulder if needed.

 

[Rafter H BBQ]

Sad to hear of this Norm, hang in there the best you all can. I wish I could say something to help take some pain away. You’ll all be in my fams thoughts and prayers. Remember we as a group are always here if you need anything or just need to chat.