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GaryHibbert

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Our family lost a good friend this week.  Sadly, we had to put down my wife’s 6 year old Black Lab, Addy. 

                     Addy in her last week with us


Back at the beginning of February, she was diagnosed with bone cancer of the jaw, and by then the cancer had spread throughout her lymph nodes.  The vet gave her only 2 weeks to a very few months to live.  Heartbreaking news.

We decided then that as long as she was enjoying life, we would keep her on pain killers and pray she would die peacefully in her sleep at home.  If that were not to be, then, when she no longer had a good quality of life, we would take her one last time to the vet.  That day arrived all too soon.  Such was Addy's indomitable spirit  that we could feel her fighting the euthonol to the very end, but she finally couldn’t win that battle and slipped peacefully away.

Six years ago, we got Addy and her sister Roxy at 7 weeks of age. 

                     Addy (L) Roxy (R) at 4 weeks


Roxy, a big boned, chunky, bull-in-a-china-shop dog, with all the strength and speed of a Clydesdale chose me.  Addy, a small boned, sleek, almost dainty dog, with the speed of a race horse bonded immediately with Miss Linda. She was a natural sh*t disturber.  She knew she wasn’t allowed to do certain things, knew she would get whacked for it, but she.. Just.  Didn’t.  Care!   After doing the deed, she would come and sit in front of me, tail wagging, a huge grin, on her face, and wait for her whack.  Every single time.

Addy’s world revolved around my wife.  If she saw Miss Linda, or even heard her in another room, then 100% of her attention was focused on her to the exclusion of all else (at that point in time, I just became chopped liver). 

I’ll miss her greatly, but Miss Linda is truly devastated—lots of tears and heartache.

Life is strange now, having only one dog to step over and around, only one dog to pet, walk, feed treats, and talk to.  It is unbelievable how attached to a dog you can become when they have been part of your life for six years.  Addy will be sorely missed.

We had Addy cremated, and this spring, when everything is green, we’ll spread her ashes over our land.  She will forever run free and chase deer and rabbits (she might even finally catch one), and her spirit will always be with her “pack”.
 
Our family lost a good friend this week.  Sadly, we had to put down my wife’s 6 year old Black Lab, Addy. 


                     Addy in her last week with us





Back at the beginning of February, she was diagnosed with bone cancer of the jaw, and by then the cancer had spread throughout her lymph nodes.  The vet gave her only 2 weeks to a very few months to live.  Heartbreaking news.

We decided then that as long as she was enjoying life, we would keep her on pain killers and pray she would die peacefully in her sleep at home.  If that were not to be, then, when she no longer had a good quality of life, we would take her one last time to the vet.  That day arrived all too soon.  Such was Addy's indomitable spirit  that we could feel her fighting the euthonol to the very end, but she finally couldn’t win that battle and slipped peacefully away.

Six years ago, we got Addy and her sister Roxy at 7 weeks of age. 

                     Addy (L) Roxy (R) at 4 weeks






Roxy, a big boned, chunky, bull-in-a-china-shop dog, with all the strength and speed of a Clydesdale chose me.  Addy, a small boned, sleek, almost dainty dog, with the speed of a race horse bonded immediately with Miss Linda. She was a natural sh*t disturber.  She knew she wasn’t allowed to do certain things, knew she would get whacked for it, but she.. Just.  Didn’t.  Care!   After doing the deed, she would come and sit in front of me, tail wagging, a huge grin, on her face, and wait for her whack.  Every single time.

Addy’s world revolved around my wife.  If she saw Miss Linda, or even heard her in another room, then 100% of her attention was focused on her to the exclusion of all else (at that point in time, I just became chopped liver). 

I’ll miss her greatly, but Miss Linda is truly devastated—lots of tears and heartache.

Life is strange now, having only one dog to step over and around, only one dog to pet, walk, feed treats, and talk to.  It is unbelievable how attached to a dog you can become when they have been part of your life for six years.  Addy will be sorely missed.
We had Addy cremated, and this spring, when everything is green, we’ll spread her ashes over our land.  She will forever run free and chase deer and rabbits (she might even finally catch one), and her spirit will always be with her “pack”.

Sorry Gary, huge animal folks here & they become a part of the fam.... We have a lab that's going on 10 & she's slowing down but it's hard to see them age &/or get sick ! Our thoughts are with you all !
 
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Truer friends will never be had. A dog is always happy to see you and is always there to comfort you when you are feeling down. Even though he has been gone for 2 1/2 years we still miss our first family pet. He was a Bull Mastiff/St. Bernard mix named Tank (165 lbs.), best biggest hearted dog we ever had.

 
Gary, B-one, Shaggy--thanks. its never easy. Gary, sorry to hear about the bulldog--good looking critter

Gary
Thanks Gary,  made us realize that our little Schnauzer is 11 and won't be around forever

Gary
 
My sincere condolences to Gary & Gary, and all others here who have lost their 4 legged loves in the past.

I know the feeling, from when we lost our Black Lab Mix "Shadow", at 12 1/2 years, and a couple years later "Bozo", our 17 1/2 year old cat.

They are both dearly missed.

RIP to all our lost loved ones.

Bear
 
Gary, so sorry for the loss of Addy. We've lost a couple of very loved dogs over the years-always a heartbreak to go thru. Our last loss was Maggie, who also lost a battle with cancer. All you can do is remember the good times and know that she had a good and happy life with your family. Peace be with you and yours in this difficult time, David.
 
Oh boy....saddest thing ever to read about and, of course, makes one tear up with empathy. So sorry for the families loss. My SO has no children so dotes on the Lab and cats as if they were kids and it's so hard when these things must be dealt with. Better days ahead....Regards, Willie
 
Gary,  I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  It sure is a heart wrenching thing to go through.  Just know that the grief will lessen as each day passes.   

I went through the same thing last fall with my cat.    Here she is doing her usual morning routine while I sit in the bathroom doing mine.  Darn it, I need tissue now.

 
Sorry about the loss of Addy, A truely best friend, I myself have lost 2 good dogs and miss them dearly. My heart goes out to you and Miss Linda.
 
one dog to step over and around

A friend of mine had a black lab like that, she loved to lay down where people would walk. We joked that her breed was the Irish Stumblehound.

I grew up with a cat who reached 24 pounds. He was a class act and he taught me a lot of lessons on how to interact with animals. I can apply that knowledge to dogs and horses as well. We would play a lot and he was gentle ... until he would get stoned on catnip and stop checking his claws.

He was black, too. You could spot him in the dark because he was actually blacker than the night.
 
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