After searching for what seems like forever, I finally have found what I believe is the only method actually written and approved. Basically, after removing all valves and and purging with either an inert gas or water, it should be checked with an explosive gas detector. These things are expensive but the local fire department should have one and will be happy to check it for you. If anything is detected, repeat the process until it is safe. Adding some type of soap, such as dish soap or powdered laundry soap, should make the process much faster because the soap breaks the surface tension of the water allowing it to penetrate every possible nook and cranny, even the pores in the metal. The same source also assured me that if I was still nervous after these steps have been taken, I could refill the tank with water. As long as the tank is completely full of water, it is impossible for it to explode. The reasons for letting the tank sit with water for several days is so the escaping vapors have time to dissipate from the area. My source was my brother who is a FF and learned this in a class he had to take recently. He said he would give me the manual with the regulation printed but it is a long read and the only part I really needed is the part I put here. So I will be doing this as follows.
1) Relocate the tank to an open area and remove all valves, plugs, etc.
2) After allowing it to air for a few days, I will fill the tank with a solution of water, powder laundry detergent, and TSP.
3) Empty the tank and take it to the FD to be checked for any remaining gasses.
4) Repeat steps 1-3 until tank is safe.
5) Refill tank with water, allowing it to overflow.
6) With water running just enough to keep the tank full,
and while praying harder than ever before in my life
, I will cut the firebox opening out.
7) Just in case I still can't muster up enough intestinal fortitude to do it myself, I will have my brother do it for me. He is my younger brother and has always been a pain in the butt, so it will be a win win for me. Just kidding!!