"The LAST thing you want is Old Guys thinking they are being given a, Childs Portion. They will be insulted and let you know in a hurry...JJ"
Great answer JJ, and very accurate. I tend to over cook (prepare more than you think would be needed, not over cook the meat <grin>) because I can always portion out the left overs and freeze them for later. My biggest fear when entertaining is running out of food and offending somebody. Since I tend to cook more than I feel is required, the general rule of thumb is "eat (or drink) as much as you want until it's gone, then you can't have any more". Blessedly, nobody has ever left my table hungry but I do have a freezer full of leftovers, which we do use on a regular basis when time is short in the evenings.
Not taking chances,
Robert