FedEx Blows? Well, what company doesn't?
My point is that, while I too have horror stories to tell, I sure wouldn't want to make sweeping comments based on one experience.
Stuff happens.
I do a LOT of shipping, and have direct experience, as a shipper, with FedEx, UPS, and USPS. Also, I have received packages from half a dozen other carriers, over the years. My experience:
USPS is far more reliable than they used to be and their "flat rate" boxes can be a bargain for heavy parts. However, their tracking is very minimal, and if you are concerned about sending a truly precious item, they would not be my first choice.
UPS used to be the rock-solid company for delivering packages. I no longer use them much because, for a small operator like me, they have priced themselves out of the business, often charging double what the other carriers charge. They are absolutely wonderful for returns (
Amazon used to use them exclusively for this purpose), and when they took over Mailboxes Etc. fifteen years ago, it became really easy to drop things off and avoid the pickup charge. Their tracking is better than USPS, but not as good as FedEx. The one thing I really dislike about UPS is that they damage far more packages than any other carrier. It is night and day: I routinely get crushed and damaged boxes from UPS, and have sent many, many photos of the damage to the shipper and UPS. This seldom happens with USPS, and I'm not sure it has ever happened with FedEx.
FedEx, despite the heading of this thread, is still my "go to" shipper when I need reliability and tracking. Their tracking is the best, and I have not yet had any delays or losses. Having said that, ANY shipper can and will lose packages. I am surprised, however, that the OP found their customer service bad. That has not been my experience. Also, they do a really fine job delivering packages without damage. They are the best carrier, in my experience, for treating packages like eggs. Finally, if you have really heavy packages to ship (> 10 pounds), the FedEx Ground (or the "Home Delivery" equivalent for shipping to homes) is the best price deal from any of the shippers.
Online shopping has astronomically increased the number of packages shipped each day. With that growth, inevitably, comes more package losses, and thefts. We have had criminals stealing mail and packages here the past few months, and I ended up in a high speed car chase with two of them three months ago at midnight (one of the stupidest things I have ever done). The point is that in addition to all the other ways a delivery can get screwed up, theft has become a MUCH bigger problem. And, as I found out after I reported the mail theft incident, you will
never get any sheriff or police department to follow up or care. Heck, we no longer have any sheriff coverage where I live. If any home here gets broken into, no one will come out because they are all stationed in Salinas (twenty miles away) to deal with the gang warfare and nightly shootings (literally,
every single night). They even publicly announced this change three years ago. Not surprisingly, a lot of people who never thought they'd own a gun now have one tucked away.
So, my advice is to not completely write off FedEx based on this one experience. The two major alternatives (UPS and USPS) are generally worse for losing packages.