A little respect!

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Being fairly old, I grew up watching Hopalong Cassidy. At the end of each show, he had a message for "us kids". Wear a rain coat, doing milk, brush teeth, etc. And also one important message about Police. I thought I would pass it on. I don't do facebook or tweet so this is as far as it will likely go. Moral lessons are missing in today's entertainment. Enjoy!
 
Thanks for sharing! Appreciate it.
 
I have seen this many times before. From a time gone by I'm afraid. My father would quote this mans sayings. Along with others.
 
Thanks. That is fantastic. I remember the day when you would go to a gas station, pump the gas, then go inside and tell the person working there how much it was and pay... I told my son and his fiance that. My son laughed. His fiance didn't even understand what I was saying. Times, they have changed.
 
Edited (deleted) my last post. Too much preaching.
 
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I grew up on Lone Ranger reruns, but the message and moral was pretty much the same.
Thanks for posting this!
 
bigfurmn - Let's just say the only time I take a knee and bow is to my God; not to any mortal man or cause.
 
The young have lost respect for adults and the authorities, Police, Fire Dept and so on. Growing up in my neighborhood in NJ, ANY Adult could reprimand you for doing something wrong or dangerous. THEN, they called your Mom and your backside paid for your folly.
What bothers me....These are OUR Kids and Grandkids! I don't know where we went wrong. Maybe we made life too easy, giving them everything they asked for. Maybe they learned these behaviors in the new Progressive Schools?
Not all youngsters are are disrespectful and feel entitled. My kids, in their mid-twenties, show elders the respect they deserve. But there sure are a lot of kids who seem clueless. One in Ten of my kids friends will enter my house and even acknowledge my wife and I, let alone introduce themselves and shake my hand. Sad really....JJ
 
True. Thanks for posting. Definitely needed now more than ever. I also grew up in NJ in the 60's-70's and today's kids are awful for the most part. We have 1 Son in his mid 20's and he works hard full time, and is respectful of his elders, and all people. Several of his friends are respectful too.

Mike
 
I fully believe it's a matter of family and how you were brought up. Family makes everything matter. I have a son who turned 7 months in Friday. If he acted the way I see some people come into my part time job working for my cousin. He wouldn't sit for week.
 
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Back when the police and their families were part of the community it was much easier to be respectful. Policing has little by little stopped being about safe communities and more about obedience, politics, and order. The police have continued to further militarize and separate themselves farther and farther from the people in the community they are supposed to protect. Far too many police encounters for minor offenses have ended in death or trumped up charges sending citizens to prison for years or to the morgue for something as minor as arguing about a traffic ticket. Police have been given too much power and are largely unaccountable regardless of what crimes they commit. In this case they have lost the consent of the governed and that is where we are today. You can't force respect out of anyone. The police know that and they know they have also lost that respect so they go to the only arrow left in their quiver. Brutal, violent, oppression. Police services are needed but not the way they are being delivered and managed today. Just to be clear, I do not hate the police. I do hate the laws that have been passed that allow police to violate citizens with impunity. First thing is get rid of qualified immunity. That is a get out of jail free card for most police crimes.
 
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Are there Poorly trained or A$$hole Racist Cops out there abusing their authority? ABSOLUTELY! Are people afraid of the Police? Yes!...BUT... The Police are afraid of the PEOPLE as well, and they should be!
I grew up in the 60's, 70's and early 80's in a neighborhood with several families of police officers. Many of their son's became police officers in the 80's until recently retiring. None wore Bullet Proof Vests. They were not Terrified to go on a domestic call, issue a warrant, stop a speeder or person driving erratically. They exercised caution but did they fear that any call could be met by an individual, group of Thugs or Gang Members that are more well armed than the police with their Glock or Shotgun? No!
Yes police and their tactics have changed. Because Criminals have become more violent and better armed! A few decades ago, a policeman could walk up on a traffic stop with nothing more than a book of tickets in hand. These days the police have their hand on their gun as they approach, in the suburbs, and damned well need to have their gun Drawn approaching a car in American Cities!
In the 70's if a group of Teens walked through a neighborhood carrying Guns a policeman stopped them and asked, " What are you guys going Hunting for? " Now, teenagers are ARMED but they AIN'T going Rabbit Hunting!
The Police NEED to be afraid! They NEED to stop an individual or group and detain the people with cuffs or weapons drawn until the police KNOW they are Safe and going home to their Families at the end of a shift.
I have been stopped by the police in several situations, some doing something illegal, but I have NEVER had an issue with police because I don't give them an attitude or hard time. No policemen, I know, ever hurt anyone for complying with their instuction to keep BOTH of them from getting hurt or killed.
Police who abuse their authority need to be punished. Reforms and training or retraining is desperately needed. But just like every protester is not Looting and lighting Fires...Nobody should condemn an entire organization for the heinous acts of a few.
Example...My best friend, growing up, became a policeman. He just retired after 30 years on the force. As a civilian, he was recently stopped by a NJ State Trooper. For reasons unknown, the trooper made the traffic stop. As my friend Matt was comfronted by the officer and got out to comply with instructions, the trooper explained that...27 years ago, the trooper's parents were stopped by Matt for speeding. The trooper's mother was in labor. They were not going to make it to the hospital so Matt delivered their Baby, the now NJ State Trooper, on the side of the road! The trooper wanted to thank Matt for helping his mother. Matt's wife took pictures of the exchange and posted it on FB and Insta gram. Did it go Viral? NO! Was this story covered by CNN,NBC,ABC,MSNBC or even the local News outlet, NO! BUT...Had Matt tried to give this BLACK driver a speeding ticket, or tried to arrest the Father and ended in a physical confrontation...THAT would have been covered as another act of violence by a White Officer on a Black man! You Never hear about the Good Police do, but the MEDIA sure makes sure you hear when something goes wrong...Sorry for being Long Winded,but both sides of this discussion should be covered...JJ
 
100% agree JJ. I'm also from Jersey, born and raised, I've probably mentioned a few dozen times.LOL. Lived there from birth until age 31. As a teen driver had several interactions with the Police. I was always polite and cooperated. Never once did I fear any violence. Even a few times in NYC being pulled over , still no fear, and always polite to them. Nowadays that doesn't seem to exist for the most part. Truly a sad time in our lives.

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Good one Sarge.
My ,Dad was RCMP in the first half of the last century--he quit to marry my Mom. We were brought up to respect all police officers. Sadly these days a lot of kids hve no respect for police or any kind of authority. They think they can just do whatever they want and are outraged when they have to pay the price for their actions. They simply have no concept of "consequences". My 30 year old step-daughter is a prime example of that. Unfortunately, she's in the majority of her age group of 13 to 35 year olds.
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