Aint that the truth. My mom suddenly died less than 2 weeks ago. By suddenly, she was 82, but it came out of the blue otherwise. Dad is/was devastated. I had them build a house next door to me so I could be there as they age-out. Problem is, they insisted on going to Florida half the year...guess where my mom decided to die? Yep, 4 day round trip road trip for us.
Just got back this weekend, nobody jumped in and cut the grass on the two properties for me while we were gone, so after some surprise work on the zero-turn I had to do, I found myself over there mowing their side and choking up as I maneuvered around mom's gardens...wishing I had never complained about it, calling the place a "gypsy encampment" with all the random crap everywhere.
She knew I was half-joking, both my parents raised me with a sense of humor, but damn...ya never know...dad will likely get rid of most of the gardens, as I planned to when they die...but, yea, we complain about some stupid shiznit...then "real" hits.
I tried to get in to my Aunt and uncle's recipes, and same deal as you, very hard to follow and not very precise measurements and even ingredients one is not likely to find at the local Walmart! I'm working to create my own recipes these days. I used to wing it all the time, then realized I couldn't replicate that last awesome thing I "threw together", so I started bieng more meticulous and writing and refining recipes. It's starting to pay off.
Look for no-knead sourdough recipes. My recipe/notes arent ready for prime-time quite yet or I would share, but what I'm doing is a two day process. Problem is I dont like to bake in the summer, so now I have to keep my starter alive for months, just to keep it alive. Good news is it's more resilient than most online recipes would have you believe. Being gone for well over a week and couldn't remember the last time I fed it before that, I just fed it yesterday and it bounced right back!