I use a combination of different handling methods. For prep I use nitrile gloves, makes cleanup a breeze and I'm not stopping to rewash if I have to do something else real quick.
For handling charcoal, hot grates/racks, hot pans, or wrapped meats I have a pair of welding gloves.
For moving meats during cooking I use my pig flipper, the buttula, or a pair of tongs.
For post cook hot handling I just started using the white cotton knit gloves with a nitrile glove over it. This works great for maintaining dexterity while not burning the ever living crap out of my hands.