Every smoker has a learning curve, from the simplest electric/pellet set-n-forget, to the most labor intensive, which is usually a cheap offset.
Your husband is new to smoking, so he needs a smoker that works straight out of the box with no modifications, but also teaches him the art of smoking. Two smokers perfectly fit that description: the
Weber Smokey Mountain ($300 for the 18.5", $400 for the 22.5") and the
Pit Barrel Cooker ($300 for the 18"). Both produce competition quality Q with relatively short learning curves. With the
WSM you have grates on two levels. With the
PBC you hang the meat and can have a grate on one level.
Both the
WSM and the
PBC use charcoal and wood chunks, not chips. Avoid buying Kingsford charcoal, which is formulated for a grill, not a smoker. Buy a quality lump or a dense briquette like Royal Oak Ridge, Weber, or Trader Joes.
I have an EXTREMELY analytical personality. I learned to smoke on a
Weber Kettle grill. It required a lot of babysitting. After six months of constant use, that babysitting got a little old, especially for my wife. For Christmas one year she said "Buy any smoker you want, money is no object." I did my usual obsessive research and the decision came down to a $1300 cabinet type smoker, or the $400 22.5"
Weber Smokey Mountain. I really couldn't justify the difference in cost and went with the Weber. It has been a year-round, 60+ uses per year smoker ever since. I use it for short smokes of 2-3 hours for tri tips, to long smokes of 20+ hours for pork shoulders, and everything in between from jerky to ribs to nuts.
Once your husband learns temp management, even without a digital temperature controller ($200), the WSM is close to a set-n-forget smoker. My wife is like you, she likes smoked meat, just not as much smoke flavor as I do. Dry smoking (no water in the water pan) in the WSM gives us both a flavor we love.
I too work from home now. With a wireless thermometer I can babysit the smoker from my computer, sip on some Tres Manos anejo, and work away while dinner is transforming in the smoker.
Whatever you get, he'll love it!