I stopped drinking somewhere between 5 and 6 years ago, not for any particular reason I just stopped one day and then 6ish months down the road I realized I hadn't had a drink. So I just kept on not having a drink.
In February of 2018 I decided after years upon years of being severely overweight to give the Keto diet a shot. It was never that I didn't eat healthy things, I've always liked veggies and I've never had much of a sweet tooth. My biggest downfall was always my potion sizes, and I would always eat until I was full...and then some more lol. But I made the choice and gave up the sweets, the breads, pastas, potatoes, and so on. Pretty much all the good stuff.
I wasn't sure how well it was going to work, I mean I'd read that the results could be amazing, but I've tried various weight loss stuff since I was in high school. Well I said "I tried" but it was more my mother forced crap onto me. Weight loss drinks, patches, the Atkins diet, testosterone shots. The testosterone shots were amazing, didn't so much help with my weight loss but the boost of power was great, the short fuse...not so much.
Keto was the first time that I decided to do something about my weight without anyone pushing or saying I should. I didn't tell anyone that I was starting. I just did. I didn't even do an initial weigh in, so I'm not entirely sure what my starting weight was; so I use the last number I seen which was from 3ish months prior to starting.
And it worked. I didn't weigh in for the first three weeks of starting, and when I finally did I was amazed. I've been going good for 22 months, and my weight loss which has slowed within the last couple months but is slowing ticking away. Everyone is always asking how much I've lost, complimenting me, and telling me if I lose much more that I'm going to disappear. It's honestly a little uncomfortable and awkward at times how much I'm being complimented. I just thank them, and let them know that I still haven't told anyone how much I've lost. I figured out the reason this is working for me is that I made it about me and what I thought about it, and I didn't need the validation or congratulations of anyone else.
Everyone asks what the key is, and I just tell them simply willpower. And to be frank, I'm honestly surprised that I've had this much willpower.