just wanted to offer an explaination as to my disappearance for awhile,in the last few months we have been battling big family issues,our grandson was born 2 months early,and was in the hospital for months at this same time my wife had back surgery and we have since found out we have several family and friends battling cancer as a matter of fact some friends of ours lost their son two days ago to this. i have tried to run in and just check on the goings on here but have not really even felt like participating much,hope everyone understands hope to start getting back into the swing of things before long.