Everyone has their own ideas, and of course they all would work. If it were me, I would cook the brisket and butt a couple a days before needed. They are the most hard to stick a stopwatch on. That way you can enjoy the smoke without all the stress of timing. Cook completely, allow to rest, then foil and throw in the fridge. You'll lose a little bark bite but it would be well worth it IMHO to be stress free on the day of the party. Besides you'll get a good nights sleep the night before the party and be read to conquer the world.
Of course you want to have that smoker fired up and drawing attention at the party so why not do the ribs the day of the party, and throwing the brisket and butt in to warm on the last hour or so of the 3 2 1 or 2 2 1 method for cooking which I assume you'll be using. That way they all come out about the same time.
Just another opinion to ponder. Remember we all suggest what we'd do, you'll be the one to do it. Hope your party is outstanding and the smoke is killer Try to remember to take some pictures so we can see how it came out.
Last but not least, take notes seriously. Use what you do this time to adjust, so that next time you'll remember what it is that you think you should change. You'd hate to hit a home-run and not remember how you did it.
Good luck whatever you do.