Dear BBQ friends, It was a very sad day and the Bob-BQN household yesterday. My youngest son lost one of his good friends yesterday morning. His older brother was driving him to school and crossed the divided highway sliding sideways into oncoming traffic. The 14 year old boy was killed instantly when the vehicle struck the passenger side of the car. My wife mention to our sons on the way to school that there must be a wreck on the highway because of the large amount of detoured traffic on the side roads, little did they know at the time the profound effect this revelation would have on our lives. Later last evening we received another call that pronounced the 19 year old brotherâ€™s death at the hospital. My heart goes out to this family as Iâ€™m sure none of us anticipate or are prepared for this type of tragedy neither emotionally or financially. This young man and my son we in band together and played the same instrument. They grew up playing on the same soccer team. Last year they were in several classes at school together. He is taking the death of his friend very hard. Please keep this family and my son in your prayers.