I am aware that some of us, especially OTBS members have a particular responsibility to help others in their efforts at mastering the art of the TBS. While I will not go into details it has come to my attention that some have felt oppressed or embarrassed by comments made about their posts and I am aware of one individual that simply quit posting because of a comment made through a private message that was in my opinion uncalled for. Remember that a knife cuts sweeter with honey than with salt. Constructive critique is needed and appreciated by most. Rudeness is not. I would encourage all of us to take a look at our own learning curve and remember what we did at the beginning of our smoking. Most of us would look back and laugh at our own ineptness and thank those that helped us.